set the date location parents meeting photographer invitations guest list wedding dress bridesmaids' dresses groomsmen suits shoes Chinese dress evening gown hair appointment makeup artist bridal shower bachelorette party wedding bands wedding gift for HB bridesmaids' gifts groomsmen's gifts marriage license officiant gift registry music/dj favors rehearsal dinner wedding day schedule cocktail hour hors d'oeuvres dinner menu seating arrangements flowers wedding cake honeymoon